By Rev. Francis Osiire
As we approach the long November – January holidays, parents face the challenge of keeping children engaged constructively. The COVID-19 pandemic showed us how difficult unplanned extended breaks can be, emphasizing that parenting is a responsibility that cannot be delegated or postponed. While others may support, the primary role lies with the child’s parents. To make the holidays meaningful and productive, activities should allow children to expend energy, participate actively, and develop new skills. According to IN TOUCH PARENTING, a Singapore-based organization offering tools for effective parenting, maintaining a routine is essential. A daily schedule that includes play, study, chores, or family time helps children feel secure while balancing fun and responsibilities, strengthening family bonds in the process. Parents are encouraged to plan family activities intentionally, setting aside dedicated time each day to connect with children, discuss plans, or focus on individual needs. At the same time, giving children independent time to explore hobbies or socialize with friends promotes self-awareness, responsibility, and intentional decision-making.
Allowing children age-appropriate autonomy is also important. Let them have a say in how they spend their holidays, whether it is choosing a hobby, visiting a particular attraction, or enjoying downtime. Discuss their choices together and, where possible, set a reasonable budget for activities to teach prudence and planning.
Including household chores as part of the daily routine helps children develop discipline, responsibility, and basic life skills like time management, preparing them for the future. Parents can also consider taking children on excursions or tours to local attractions, scenic spots, or historic sites, providing both learning opportunities and family bonding time. Supporting their hobbies and interests nurtures creativity and innovation. Engaging in meaningful conversations about ambitions, values, and life goals helps children make thoughtful decisions and strengthens communication within the family. Providing age-appropriate sexuality education is another critical parental responsibility often overlooked, while watching and discussing movies together helps guide media consumption and prevent unhealthy habits.
Cooking traditional, healthy meals together not only teaches practical skills but also reinforces family bonds. Above all, parents should strive to be role models, demonstrating the behaviors, attitudes, and values they wish to instill in their children. By combining structure, creativity, and intentional engagement, parents can ensure that their children enjoy a safe, meaningful, and productive holiday. A little planning and active participation go a long way in nurturing responsible, skilled, and confident young individuals.
Wishing all families a blessed and fulfilling holiday season!