Fathers please take note that you have to change the tide from going way ward. “Shuttle Diplomacy,” Psychology Today, July/August 1993, p. 15, clearly states that, Fatherhood turn out to be a complex and unique phenomenon with huge consequences for the emotional and intellectual growth of children.
Fathers you need to know that  you hold a particular key or your child (ren).
For example; Boys who grow up with dads have their masculinity affirmed and learn from their fathers how to channel their strength in positive ways. Fathers help children understand proper male sexuality, hygiene and behavior in age appropriate ways.
Fathers help connect their children, (especially boys) to job markets as they enter adulthood. This is because fathers, more than mothers, are likely to have the kinds of diverse community connections needed to help young adults get their first jobs. They are also more likely to have the motivation to make sure their children make these connections.
On the other hand, girls with involved, married fathers are more likely to have healthier relationships with boys in adolescence and their husbands in adulthood because they learn from their fathers how proper men act toward women.

They have a healthy familiarity with the world of men, and know which behaviors are inappropriate. This knowledge builds emotional security, and helps to safeguard them from the exploitation of predatory males. Both mom and dad play the most crucial part in their children overall development right from conception.
The development of a child’s character and other potentials are all dependent on parental direction. Parenting is a never ending task. Its not something you can avoid once the time comes, because children need their parents to keep them on course from time to time.

Parents need to realize that parenting is not about dominating the child and making them into what you want them to be. Instead, parenting involves nurturing, guiding, and supporting children to help them grow into confident, compassionate, and independent individuals.
The child’s dreams and ambitions may not align with what you have planned out for them, make peace with that without thinking the child has failed in life or has settled for less.
From my little experience, I have learnt that having an open and honest conversation with the child about their dreams, aspirations and why they are important to them is  crucial. Parents need to understand the child’s passion and what drives them. Reflect on your expectations for the child. Evaluate whether your expectations are truly in the best interest of the child.
Regardless of whether your child’s dreams align with your plans, show the child that you love and support them unconditionally. Encouraging them will help boost their self esteem and confidence.
Guide and help the child to understand the challenges and potential risks involved in pursuing their passions. Give advise and resources and avoid as much as possible, to control their decisions. Allow the child to learn and grow through their own experiences. Where you have concerns about your child’s career path, seek guidance from professionals or mentors to offer insight into the industry or career field the child is interested in to make informed decisions. Advise the child to have plan B that can provide security and stability while they pursue their dreams. Every child is different, and their dreams might lead them on a unique path. Acknowledge their individuality and encourage them to pursue what truly makes them happy and fulfilled, even if it differs from your original plans.

Remember, your goal as a parent is to support your child’s growth, happiness, and well-being. Through open communication, understanding, and support, you are helping the child pursue their dreams while nurturing a healthy parent-child relationship.